Too weird in your opinion?

I think your mother is super insensitive, no offense. That's just cruel to say though. A loss of a baby (yes it was a baby) is hard to deal with and much more something you can't ever really get over regardless of how far along in the pregnancy you were. That's horrible that your mother would say something like that. I'd wear the tag for as long as I felt I needed to wear it. I wouldn't care what anyone told me. So if you want to wear it then go ahead.